Conversations with a Dom
A podcast for the sexually curious and hedonistic adventurers, by the people behind KinkyEvents.co.uk. Feel empowered sexually, and learn about kink, BDSM and Dom/sub dynamics. Chief (a male Dom) and Moineau (a female sub) discuss everything from events they've been to, to advice on starting a D/s relationship, becoming comfortable with your sexuality, getting your partner to be more dominant, explaining the world of D/s for newbies, and some killer tips for the more experienced kinksters amongst you. The show contains adult themes, strong language, and discussions of sexual activity.
Episodes
49 episodes
E49: Your Juiciest Kink Questions Answered (Part 2) - Swinger Clubs, Doms Without Labels, and BDSM without Pain
Chief and Moineau are back, answering more of your burning BDSM and relationship questions!Ever wondered what to do if impact play isn’t your thing? Or whether all Doms need a title? They break down alternatives for brats and su...
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Season 1
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Episode 49
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1:03:11
E48: Your Juiciest Kink Questions Answered (Part 1) – Pegging, Watersports, Introducing Kinks, and More...
Chief and Moineau dive headfirst into the first batch of juicy, reader-submitted questions about BDSM, dominance, submission, and everything in between. From spicing up oral with dominant energy to navigating long-distance D/s struggles, they t...
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Season 1
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Episode 48
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1:18:01
E47: A BDSM Couple Try Two Kinky Communication Exercises (With Sprinkles on Top book)
Chief and Moineau discuss Stephanie Goerlich's book 'With Sprinkles on Top' and the importance of communication in bridging the gap between kinky and vanilla partners.We compare mental fantasies with real-world practicality (including t...
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Season 1
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Episode 47
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58:41
E46: 30 Surprisingly Simple Exercises to Supercharge Communication and Transform Your Sex Life!
Chief presents 30 varied exercises designed to improve communication skills within BDSM and D/s relationships. These activities aim to deepen the connection, enhance understanding, and ultimately lead to a better sex life. Ranging from joint jo...
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Season 1
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Episode 46
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20:29
E45: Relaxed Intimacy: Sexting, Massage, Teasing, and Edging - Oh My!
Chief and Moineau share a candid conversation about their recent intimate and sensual experience. They discuss reading explicit sexting exchanges, the buildup of sexual tension, and the psychological and physical aspects of their BDSM and DS re...
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Season 1
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Episode 45
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59:08
E44: Sex Menu Walk-Through (Have Our Tastes Changed!?)
Chief and Moineau revisit their Sex Menus from March 2020, and chat through what's changed and what hasn't. This episode highlights why a Sex Menu is such a fantastic tool for open communication in relationships. They showcase how such candid d...
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Season 1
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Episode 44
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1:03:31
E43: Finding BDSM Events and Making Friends
Chief and Moineau spill the beans on finding BDSM events and making kinky friends. It’s a no-holds-barred chat filled with personal anecdotes, laughter, and a heap of useful tips for anyone curious about or already exploring the world of BDSM.<...
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Season 1
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Episode 43
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28:45
E42: A new sub discusses her experiences 3 months after introducing BDSM into an 11-year relationship
Chief and Moineau sit down with Liz who recently introduced D/s into an existing long-term relationship. With humour and candidness, Liz shares their initial steps, challenges, and the profound impact of BDSM on their connection and communicati...
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Season 1
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Episode 42
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44:00
E41: 8 Common BDSM Myths Debunked
In this episode Chief clears up misconceptions about the BDSM and Dom/sub lifestyle. With a wealth of experience and knowledge, Chief discusses and debunks eight prevalent myths. Whether you're new to the scene or looking for clarity on certain...
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Season 1
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Episode 41
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26:44
E40: What's it like visiting a professional Dominatrix?
What’s it REALLY like to visit a professional Dominatrix? In this episode of Conversations wtih a Dom Chief, Moineau, and their guest Tom, discuss his experiences of visiting a professional Domme. It's an honest and educational look at personal...
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Season 1
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Episode 40
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53:08
E39: Autism and Kink, Pup Play, and Puppy Ireland with Puppy Ripley
In this episode, we dive deep into the world of pup play, and neurodivergence. Joining us as our guest is Puppy Ripley (aka Sir Kris), to talk about their personal experiences with autism, pup play, and their kink journey. They share their stor...
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1:13:21
E38: Stop Overthinking Your Dom/sub Dynamic
Do you overthink your BDSM scenes or D/s dynamic? In this episode, Chief shares his thoughts on why overthinking the details can kill the mood in the bedroom and make your D/s dynamic trickier. He also discusses areas you SHOULD be thinking abo...
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Season 1
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Episode 38
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29:17
E37: Professional Dominatrix Miss Mae Ling Shares Her Secrets
Chief and Moineau chat with Miss Mae Ling, a professional Dominatrix living in Los Angeles. How did she come to be a pro Domme? What excites her most about her job? What tips does she have to help women feel more dominant? And what advice can s...
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Season 1
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Episode 37
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52:21
E36: What Sexual Fantasy Could You Never Tell Your Partner About?
In this BDSM podcast episode, Chief and Moineau discuss a Reddit thread titled 'Wives of Reddit, what is a sexual fantasy you could ...
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Season 1
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Episode 36
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55:50
E35: We Discuss Our First Sensual Dominance Public Performance
Get ready for a sizzling rollercoaster of emotions in this electrifying episode! Join us as we delve into the uncharted territory of our first-ever BDSM performance at Mistress Jane's Divine Darkness event. Feel the adrenaline rush as we spill ...
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Season 1
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Episode 35
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58:55
E34: How to Powerplay in Public (5 Ways)
Could you imagine showing up to a Shakespearean play in full gimp attire? Talk about a culture shock! In this episode, we delve into the controversial world of public kink and discuss what makes public displays of kink both intriguing and poten...
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Season 1
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Episode 34
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32:28
E33: The Psychology of the Pleasure Dom
Have you ever wondered about the intriguing world of Pleasure Domination, or how to optimize pleasure and communication within relationships? Prepare to have your curiosity satisfied, as we have an enlightening conversation with Chief and Moine...
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Season 1
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Episode 33
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53:04
E32: Anxiety and BDSM (with Moineau)
Moineau discusses her experiences with anxiety and how it impacts her BDSM, sex and dating life.
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Season 1
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Episode 32
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44:09
E31: Vibrator Showdown! Lovehoney Magic Wand vs Le Wand Classic vs Le Wand Petite (Tested LIVE)
Which wand vibrator is best? Chief pits two Le Wand massagers against his trusty Lovehoney mains powered magic wand vibrator to see which one triumphs. Moineau kindly volunteers her body for science.
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Season 1
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Episode 31
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36:38
E30: What Does D/s Mean to You? (We Ask Our Community Members)
Chief and Moineau posed the question 'What does D/s mean to you?' to our Discord community members to see how they felt about it. The results we got back were inspiring, moving, deep, and generally wonderful. In this episode, we share what they...
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Season 1
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Episode 30
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42:30
E29: How Unusual Are Your Sexual Fantasies?
In this intriguing episode of the BDSM podcast, Chief and Moineau dive into a fascinating 2014 research paper titled 'What exactly is an unusual sexual fantasy?'. Their lively discussion revolves around exploring their own kinky inclinations. T...
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48:20
E28: 9 Mistakes Beginner Submissives Make Time and Again (aka How to Protect Yourself)
Discovering the BDSM world as a beginner submissive can be incredibly exciting, but it can also lead to repeated mistakes and take its emotional toll on you. In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, we discuss beginner subs' common mistakes...
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Season 1
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Episode 28
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32:06
E27: Spring Swinging Shenanigans at the Venus Star Resort in Maspalomas, Gran Canaria
Chief and Moineau discuss their trip to the Venus Star Resort for swingers in Gran Canaria, and their stroll along the Maspalomas nudist beach. Find out what goes on at a swingers day club, and what you can expect your first time. For photos, v...
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Season 1
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Episode 27
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51:08
E26: Divine Darkness Party Review & Spring BDSM Scene Ideas
In this BDSM podcast episode Chief and Moineau review the Divine Darkness London kinky party they attended, then talk about two recent scenes they did together, involving rope bondage, teasing, erotic NLP techniques, quite a lot of roughness, a...
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Season 1
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Episode 26
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44:07
E25: Swinging Pineapples, Kinky Conundrums, and Reader Questions
In this BDSM podcast episode, Chief and Moineau help two readers who submitted questions about transitioning from a Master/slave dynamic to more of a Daddy Dom/Little dynamic, and what to do if you're kinky but your partner isn't.
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Season 1
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Episode 25
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35:44